Last night we had a wonderful treat – Rich and I had dinner with our sons.  Graham lives here so we are fortunate in being able to see him often, but Chandler lives in California at the moment, so it is not often that the 4 of us can be together.

The boys are now adults – self-supporting, independent young men – and being able to spend time with them was worth all the various hassles and inconveniences along the way (we were actually pretty lucky).  Last night we remembered the growing up years on Lummi Island – their friends, the old timers, their grandparents – all the parts of  becoming an adult.  We told stories and laughed a lot, and it was one of those special nights that sometimes just happen. 

We enjoyed our children during those growing up years, but I really think the greatest pleasure in being a parent lies in one day looking at this adult and realizing that while they will never cease to be your child, what you now have is a very special equal – a friend with whom you have a unique bond.

So for those of you with young children, appreciate them, enjoy them, love them – and know that it will only get better.